About Bed Moms
Bed Moms is a raw, real community where parents drop the perfect act and find their people. We create a judgment-free space where parents of children with disabilities connect with understanding hearts, neurotypical parents ask the questions they're afraid to voice elsewhere, and every mom remembers she's more than just "mom" – she's still the person she was before kids, with dreams, struggles, and a story worth telling.
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Through vulnerable storytelling, evidence-based resources, and transparent conversations about the beautiful mess of parenting, we remind every member of our community: you are not alone, you are not broken, and your experience matters. If we can make even just one mom drop her guilt in the gutter where it belongs, we'll be happy.
About Rachann
Rachann is a New York City mom raising two boys with her fiancé Alex. Her little lookalikes are sixteen-year-old Sawyer and three-year-old Giorgio, both diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder and adhd (which explains why she's developed superhuman patience and an unhealthy relationship with noise-canceling headphones). She has a beautifully modern blended family alongside her ex-husband, his partner, and their son.
Having built her career as an operations executive scaling and transforming tech organizations, Rachann brings the same unfiltered honesty to parenting that she does to meetings - which is to say, brutally direct and occasionally terrifying to witness. She's known for speaking her mind, especially after a glass (or three) of Sancerre, when her filter completely malfunctions and the real fun begins.
Rachann is unapologetically herself, armed with a dark and delightfully demented sense of humor that keeps everyone around her either laughing or slightly concerned for her mental health. She's the first to admit she probably needs to be evaluated herself at some point - but frankly, who has the time? Those kids aren't going to raise themselves, and someone needs to keep the wine industry profitable.
You Belong Here If...
1
You're tired of pretending everything is fine.
Maybe you're scrolling through perfect family photos while your kid is having a meltdown in the grocery store. Maybe you're wondering if you're doing enough, being enough, or if you'll ever feel like yourself again.
2
You're parenting a child with disabilities
and you're exhausted from explaining, advocating, and carrying the invisible load that comes with loving a child who needs more. You need people who get it without you having to spell it out.
3
You want to be a better ally
to families with disabled children but you don't know where to start. You have questions you're afraid to ask anywhere else because you don't want to say the wrong thing.
4
You miss who you were before kids.
You love being a mom, but somewhere between the diagnosis appointments, IEP meetings, therapy sessions, or just the daily grind, you lost track of the woman you used to be.
5
You're done with toxic positivity.
"Everything happens for a reason" makes you want to scream. You need a space where you can say "this is hard" without someone trying to fix you or find the silver lining.